O'Neal and his ex-wife divorced in 2009

, Lakers celebrity O'Neal participated in the podcast show It 's Giving, and during this time he talked about tips on getting along with his partner.

"When looking for a partner, people should pay more attention to their compatibility rather than material conditions. The ideal way to get along is to be busy with their own affairs. No matter who goes home first, they can see emotions from each other's expressions. If the other person smiles before going to bed, it will be a wonderful night; if you don't smile, you need to solve the problem together. Couples should understand each other's preferences and needs. In many cases, we think we understand each other, but in fact we are not in-depth. In the early stage of love, we may be confused by the surface, and reality will gradually emerge. Therefore, we need to pay more attention to our real needs and find a balance point." O'Neal said.